The wedding night is one of the nights awaited for all young men and women, as it is one of the most permissible manifestations of joy in our societies, but there is a set of Sunnahs that our Holy Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace, recommended and which we will show you in detail in our next topic, so follow this article with us.
First: The feast and attending the banquet
It is one of the confirmed Sunnahs in the wedding, and it is about announcing the marriage among everyone without concealing anything with publicity and showing pleasure and joy in it. It is also desirable to attend the funerals or gather people to attend the feast, as our Holy Messenger, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, said: “If one of you is invited to Let him come to the feast, agreed upon.
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Second: The sincerity of the sincere intention
As the sincere intention in permissibility is absolutely necessary, according to what was reported by our honorable Messenger, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, when he said: “Three rights are upon God, their help: the mujahid for the sake of God, the offices who want to perform and the woman who wants to chasten” narrated by al-Tirmidhi, Ibn Majah, al-Nasa’i .
Third: The necessity of supplication
Supplication is one of the most beloved things to draw close to and beseech God Almighty and therefore it is highly desirable for the supplication to be performed by placing the husband his right hand on the front of his wife’s head and praying for her, through the following supplication “O God, I ask you of her good and the best of her blessings on him and I seek refuge in You from her evil and evil What you set her on. ”
Where our noble Messenger, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, said, “If one of you marries a woman or buys a servant, let him take her help, and may God Almighty bless and bless him.”
Fourth: congratulating the husband
One of the most desirable things is congratulations to the newlyweds, especially the husband, meaning his congratulations and prayers for him, and one of the best prayers for the spouses is according to what our honorable Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace, said, “God bless you and bless you and bring you together in goodness.”
Fifth: Praying two rak’ahs
Prayer is the pillar of religion and whoever relies on prayer in his life does not get tired and never perish. Therefore, it is preferable for the couple at the beginning of their life to pray and supplicate through the prayer of two rak’ahs for the husband and wife, provided that he is the imam for his wife, but after performing the two rak’ahs, the husband must perform the next prayer “Oh God, bless my family and bless them in me. Oh God, bring us together that which you have brought together is good and separate us if it is separated for good.”
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That is, there is affection and love with jokes, as it is not a serious task and does not require a large group of seriousness and distress, and that he caresses her when entering her, and the evidence for that is the entry of Mrs. Aisha on her wedding day to our noble Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, with her friends in a timid manner. She was ashamed, so he said to her, Give to your companions, and they said we did not desire it.
Seventh: when having sexual intercourse
That is, when intercourse between a man and his wife is preferable to take place through the husband’s supplication with this supplication in the name of God, God spared us Satan, and the Devil spared us what you have provided us. She provided us with a boy who was not harmed by Satan.
Eighth: ablution between the two groups
It is preferable to perform ablution between the two intercourse, and washing it is better and better, that is, in the event of completion of intercourse and the desire to return again, to perform ablution until it becomes more active and lively. It is also preferable to take a bath between the two intercourse, and it is also desirable for those who wish to sleep while he is aside to perform ablution or even ablution before sleep.
Ninth: Not to publish today’s secrets
It is preferable not to divulge the secrets of enjoyment between the spouses on this day, as it is an important secret and it is not desirable to talk about it with anyone, regardless of the degree of closeness to the bride or groom.
And that is according to what our honorable Messenger, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, said on this issue: “Whoever is the most evil of the people with God on the Day of Resurrection a man leads to his wife and leads to him and then spreads her secret.”
It is desirable for the second day of the day of the Dakhla to bring his relatives and relatives to greet them with a feast after entering. This is due to the words of the Messenger of God, upon him be the best of prayers, and praised peace when Ali Ibn Abi Talib sermoned to Fatimah, “It is necessary for a wedding to have a feast.”
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In the end, we have presented to you the most important Sunnahs of our noble Messenger, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, for marriage, which if we follow them we will succeed in our lives and enjoy them, so we hope that you have benefited from this topic and we await your comments and opinions on that article and leave your questions in the comments below the topic.